it is better to accept deferentially than to decline courteously (on accepting gifts, etc. from one's elders).; obedience is better than politeness.; obedience is a better way of showing respect than outward reverence. we'd better do as he asks instead of standing on ceremony.; it's better to do as sb. asks instead of standing on ceremony.; the best way to show respect is to obey
" gentlemen , " said the count of monte cristo as he entered , " i pray you excuse me for suffering my visit to be anticipated ; but i feared to disturb you by presenting myself earlier at your apartments ; besides , you sent me word that you would come to me , and i have held myself at your disposal . “二位先生， ”基督山伯爵一边走进来，一边说道， “请原谅我没有先登们拜访，我怕去得太早，不太合适，而且，你们已传话给我，说你们愿意先来看我，所以我也就恭敬不如从命了。 ”
