In europe , very early has by our chinese was called it “ spiritual love ” plato ' s - like love , this kind of love thought the human body the union is unchaste is dirty , thought love and the passion are two conditions which opposes mutually , therefore , when a person fall in love , he not impossible to think completely must on the human body the object union which loves with him 在欧洲，很早就有被我们中国人称之为“精神恋爱”的柏拉图式的爱，这种爱认为肉体的结合是不纯洁的是肮脏的，认为爱情和情欲是互相对立的两种状态，因此，当一个人确实在爱着的时候，他完全不可能想到要在肉体上同他所爱的对象结合。
