| 2. | Sometimes you find these opposing forces in associates friends , loved ones , but finally you must balance these opposites within yourself ; first , the confidence to go forward , to do , to become ; second , the tempering of self - approval with hard - headed , realistic self - appraisal
有时你会遭遇来自同事、朋友及所热爱的人的反对的压力，但是最终你必须自己平衡这种反对意见：首先要满怀信心向前走，去做该做的事情，去成为想成为的人；其次，调节你的自满情绪，冷静地、现实地评价自己。 |
