| 2. | Sometimes you find these opposing forces in associates friends , loved ones , but finally you must balance these opposites within yourself ; first , the confidence to go forward , to do , to become ; second , the tempering of self - approval with hard - headed , realistic self - appraisal 有时你会遭遇来自同事、朋友及所热爱的人的反对的压力,但是最终你必须自己平衡这种反对意见:首先要满怀信心向前走,去做该做的事情,去成为想成为的人;其次,调节你的自满情绪,冷静地、现实地评价自己。 |