If pour out an object to have taller knowledge , accomplishment and practice experience , will be opposite unbalance person psychology gives proper and placatory , rouse the courage that your act vigorously takes , be thwarted person can get the result that expect is less than after a have a good 假如倾诉对象具有较高的学识、修养和实践经验,将会对失衡者的心理给以适当抚慰,鼓起你奋进的勇气,受挫人会在一番倾谈之后收到意想不到的效果。