At the same time , contradictions in hetero * * * uality help to perpetuate families and parenting by ensuring that women will seek relations to children and will not find hetero * * * ual relationships alone satisfactory 同时,异性恋中的矛盾促使女人在孩子身上而不只在异性关系中取得满足感,从而有助于家庭和婚姻的长存。