被要求的人 meaning in Chinese

person sought

Should you think ill of that person for complying with the desire without waiting to be argued into it ?
如果被要求的人不等到对方加以说明，就听从了对方的意见，你能说他有什么不是吗？
But in general and ordinary cases between friend and friend , where one of them is desired by the other to change a resolution of no very great moment , should you think ill of that person for complying with the desire , without waiting to be argued into it ?
不过一般说来，朋友与朋友相处，遇到一件无关紧要的事情的时候，一个已经打定主意，另一个要他改变一下主意，如果被要求的人不等到到对方加以说服，就听众了对方的意见，你能说他有什么不是吗？ ”