得饶人处且饶人 meaning in Chinese
be lenient wherever it is possible; be easy on people; leave room for manoeuvre
Examples
- Victims are helpless , at the mercy of the offender . by showing mercy to an offender , you put yourself back in control . take charge by forgiving
受害者本身是弱者，但若能得饶人处且饶人，受害者也能夺回主动，反转形势。