去或留 meaning in Chinese

leavingvs.staying

It s yourself that you have to care about and you have to control . don t try to control the other party , and then you won t be so unhappy
去或留完全在于你，你要关心和掌握的是你自己，不要试著去控制对方，这样你就不会这么不快乐！
If you stay or you go , it s your problem . it s your right and your choice . i have no intention to bind you , to keep you or to do anything at all to you physically , mentally or psychically
去或留是你自己的问题，也是你的权利和选择，我不会绑你留你，或对你的身心灵做任何事。