令人冒火 meaning in Chinese

sick

The stolidity with which i received these instructions was , no doubt , rather exasperating : for they were delivered in perfect sincerity ; but i believed a person who could plan the turning of her fits of passion to account , beforehand , might , by exerting her will , manage to control herself tolerably , even while under their influence ; and i did not wish to frighten her husband , as she said , and multiply his annoyances for the purpose of serving her selfishness
我接受这些指示时所表现的泰然神气，无疑是令人冒火的。因为这些话确是说得十分诚恳的。但是我相信一个能够在事先就计划出怎样利用她的暴躁脾气的人，即使在爆发的时候，也可以行使她的意志，努力控制她自己而且我也不愿如她所说去“吓唬”她的丈夫，只是为了满足她的自私而增加他的烦恼。