跟自己过不去 meaning in English

bite off one's nose to spite one's face

Don ' t be too hard on yourself
别跟自己过不去
If you are not right with others , you are not going to be right with god
因为，你若跟自己过不去，就无法跟别人好好相处。
If he refused to make any deals with mr smith , he was cutting off his nose to spite his face , for other brother would and gladly
如果他拒绝和史密斯先生成交，他就是跟自己过不去，因为其他的经纪人还求之不得呢。