洗炼的 meaning in English

polished
refined

The ephemeral nature of life is a reminder for spiritual practice . suffering is but a purification process . without the suffering due to the sickness and death of our daughter , in our usual comfort it would not have been easy for my husband and me to let go of the world and start our journey home
因此我开始从这个经验中，玩我们常玩的找好事游戏：我们庆幸在困难时候有机会遇到一位在世明师生命的无常是提醒我们去修行受苦只不过是一个洗炼的过程如果没有女儿的疾病和死亡之苦，丈夫和我平常那么舒服，是不容易放下世界踏上回家之路的，所以这是背后真正的恩赐。