亲者痛仇者快 meaning in English

aggrieve those near to us and gladden the enemy

Do not sadden your friends and gladden your enemies
勿使亲者痛仇者快。
The chinese indonesians who have lived in indonesia for generations are the most reliable and loyal people who can aid in the development and prosperity of the country . please prevent these persecutions from ever happening again . we hope that all the different peoples of indonesia , including the chinese indonesians , will stand together as one and rebuild their homeland hand in hand to meet a brighter 21st century
世世代代在印尼生活的印尼华人是建设和繁荣国家最可靠和忠实的社会力量,千万不要再做那种使亲者痛仇者快的行为,我们希望印尼各族人民,包括印尼族华人,团结一致,携手并肩,重建家园去迎接更加辉煌的21世纪。